Well hello there. It’s been nearly a year since I last posted a blog. Is it too dramatic to say that between February 7, 2020 (my last post) and today, the world has pretty much flipped on its head? I don’t think it is.
The break did me good. It’s not like I haven’t wanted to write in all this time. I just haven’t known how to keep writing a blog centered solely around having fibromyalgia. Back in the day when I started blogging, I was a very sick girl. Sick was the only way I knew how to relate to the world. My days were spent in a defensive huddle trying to fend off everything life hurled at me, a perpetual victim too burdened to take charge. I still have those days but thankfully that is not every day, anymore. Once I gained a semblance of control and found some stability, I was able to branch out and start moving forward. My worldview expanded and for a while there I was even hurling toward the stars. I believed I had conquered fibro and “that phase of my life” was behind me. Then it became very hard to write this blog.
Can I pick myself up off the ground and stop laughing, please? Because it wasn’t long before I tumbled back down to hell and all that progress I thought was mine forever vanished in an instant. I relapsed. And with the physical relapse came an immense depression. They both took me years to recover from. Somewhere along the line I realized talking about my feelings was helping to keep me sick. So I stopped. It was easier to shift my focus to doing something else than feeding the immense negativity threatening to swallow me whole. So what on Earth was I supposed to blog about then?
What a decade it has been. Throughout all of these ups and downs, I’ve grown tremendously as a person. Be it age or experience, my swings aren’t as wide and lows don’t dip nearly as deep. This has allowed me to pile the plate of my life high with a variety of different interests. They keep me marching forward regardless of the fluctuating state of my health. So how, given the many changes I’ve experienced over the last ten years, do I keep writing a blog solely about being sick? My answer is I don’t. I write a blog about experiencing the world as a person who is sick.
Welcome to Chronicles of F.I.B.R.O.: a chronicle of my journey to find inspiration, balance, resilience, and optimism. I’m an aspiring novelist, rapacious reader, devoted dog mom, dedicated wife, avid health seeker, wine enthusiast, and commentator on life. All fit into a package who lives with chronic illness.
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